In the cartoon movies we often see how long their minds agile and turtles. But in real tortoise not the case. He is an animal that tends to play safe with a pulled neck deep, hiding his head into the "house" so he felt threatened. Maybe, people in Jakarta on 80-year cuss people such as "kuya", which means of course turtles.
In the business world, the character of people like that, of course, not infrequently we encounter. They tend to act as a safety players, are reluctant to take new measures, to avoid risk, and tend to hide behind his room, rather than out and into the spotlight a lot of people.
"Winners play to win" while "Survivors play to not lose," says sports psychologist Dr. Jack H. Llewellyn. Tortoise mentality that it is obvious that there is almost no difference with the chameleon that changes colors to survive, or that let the lizard tail end of origin is not dead. Play to not lose, it means to work simply in order not to lose, just to live, survive, safe, do not dare to challenge the new life, challenging the status quo, take the easy road-easy. Under no circumstances will of course now we meet many people like this. When thousands of people lost their job, those left behind is not uncommon to think they will hit next. They became survivors who tend to take the attitude of looking for safety. When in fact they are the winners who should take the attitude to continue to excel and dare to go forward. Maybe because we are more trained since childhood to "survive." Our brains are programmed to "play to not lose" rather than a winner.
Workers gather friends to march so as not to be laid off, rather than improving productivity and the company healthy, fortunately can be divided evenly. Student mental tortoise also perform the same way, organizing friends to exert pressure in order not to drop out, not by improving performance so that the university could not find a reason to remove them. Executive turtles alike.
Being a winner, of course, have a game that is not the same as a survivor. First, one must first remove his security blanket, the blanket that had to be uninstalled once someone uphill adult. Second, he must have a sense of ethical life, which is a mental attitude to play obey the rules that are designed to progress together. Third, realize that if you win then you perform. If you succeed, you just may go to the next step. Winning is "a Lifelong Process" just like learning. Fourth, the mentality of a champion should be able to quickly perform the recovery of any losses or resentment that he received. This is what distinguishes humans superior or champions who sometimes winning sometimes losing. Fifth, a winning mentality should have a foundation (to understand what it does and why it should do) and have a basic philosophy (how to live). And lastly, have the ability to listen is better than talking. Understand what was in the hearts and minds of others is clearly the important points to win.
You may not agree with the views above, but that is the reality that gained by the winners in this life. They won not because they are physically stronger, but because they have a strong belief as a winner. Thus check the core belief dululah brother before it destroys its own future. The tortoise is not a winner, he's just looking for survive only.
In the business world, the character of people like that, of course, not infrequently we encounter. They tend to act as a safety players, are reluctant to take new measures, to avoid risk, and tend to hide behind his room, rather than out and into the spotlight a lot of people.
"Winners play to win" while "Survivors play to not lose," says sports psychologist Dr. Jack H. Llewellyn. Tortoise mentality that it is obvious that there is almost no difference with the chameleon that changes colors to survive, or that let the lizard tail end of origin is not dead. Play to not lose, it means to work simply in order not to lose, just to live, survive, safe, do not dare to challenge the new life, challenging the status quo, take the easy road-easy. Under no circumstances will of course now we meet many people like this. When thousands of people lost their job, those left behind is not uncommon to think they will hit next. They became survivors who tend to take the attitude of looking for safety. When in fact they are the winners who should take the attitude to continue to excel and dare to go forward. Maybe because we are more trained since childhood to "survive." Our brains are programmed to "play to not lose" rather than a winner.
Workers gather friends to march so as not to be laid off, rather than improving productivity and the company healthy, fortunately can be divided evenly. Student mental tortoise also perform the same way, organizing friends to exert pressure in order not to drop out, not by improving performance so that the university could not find a reason to remove them. Executive turtles alike.
Being a winner, of course, have a game that is not the same as a survivor. First, one must first remove his security blanket, the blanket that had to be uninstalled once someone uphill adult. Second, he must have a sense of ethical life, which is a mental attitude to play obey the rules that are designed to progress together. Third, realize that if you win then you perform. If you succeed, you just may go to the next step. Winning is "a Lifelong Process" just like learning. Fourth, the mentality of a champion should be able to quickly perform the recovery of any losses or resentment that he received. This is what distinguishes humans superior or champions who sometimes winning sometimes losing. Fifth, a winning mentality should have a foundation (to understand what it does and why it should do) and have a basic philosophy (how to live). And lastly, have the ability to listen is better than talking. Understand what was in the hearts and minds of others is clearly the important points to win.
You may not agree with the views above, but that is the reality that gained by the winners in this life. They won not because they are physically stronger, but because they have a strong belief as a winner. Thus check the core belief dululah brother before it destroys its own future. The tortoise is not a winner, he's just looking for survive only.
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